It’s Cool to Be Weird
I really like what Razaak Eniola has to say here about human difference.
Before Prince was Prince, Prince was weird. And that goes the same for probably any of your favorite artists. Before Erykah Badu was Erykah Badu, Erykah Badu was weird. Before Marc Rebillet was Marc Rebillet, Marc Rebillet was weird.
Everybody loves to clap at the end — and most of the time we are clapping for the wrong reasons. We live in a culture that loves final products.
It’s cool to be weird, as long as it’s rooted and aligned with what’s true and what’s sincere.
I often tell people they’re weird and it’s always a compliment. Before it came to mean odd-looking or “disturbingly different”, weird meant “having power to control fate” — perhaps you could think of it as describing someone who can forge their own way, make their own luck.
Here’s a short quiz to discover your weirdness: You’re Weirder Than You Think.
For whatever reason, this also reminds me of something I read earlier today by Robin Sloan:
We should never forget that the product of work isn’t only the work — it’s also the worker.




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As a dad, I struggled when my kids asked what our "culture" was. I finally settled on Weird. Our family culture is weird. I can't wait till they're adults and see the longterm impact on their lives with weirdness as a core family value. Maybe, this post even serves as time capsule they dig up and comment on 20 years later to say how it went.... or is that too weird...
Quiz result: "Your combination is shared by 0.594% of US adults."
Taking the quiz was an interesting experience because I found myself thinking "Are there really so few who do/have/believe [X]?" ... and that question itself feels like an indicator that I am likely surrounded by too much of my own (wonderfully weird and fun and brilliant and supportive) tribe.
I remain grateful for the serendipitous exposure to other flavors of weird that this site provides, and will take this gentle boot to the butt that I should be intentional about seeking out a greater diversity of lived experience.
Happy weirding, everyone!
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