“In nine experiments involving 1,800 participants, researchers found that people consistently underestimated how interesting and enjoyable conversations about boring topics would be.”
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While I agree that, given the right lens, there are no inherently boring subjects, I must point out that there are some truly tedious people in this world who can energy vampire the shit out of any topic.
stop talking about me :-) i love small talk and am slowly improving my ability to sense when people want to exit the chat or even change the topic
Another instance of how you can be in good hands with someone who's good at conversation regardless of topic!
I've made it my personal mission to make the young whippersnappers who work at a coffee shop I frequent make small talk with me. I see these people at least twice a week, let's not act like we're total strangers. Hell yes I will make you talk to me about the weather and the Grammys and I will say "Hi, how are you?" before I order my coffee whether you want me to or not.
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