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What do you do after you accidentally kill a child? This is wonderfully written….but also very hard to read.

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Jack Loftus

A worthy read. Not one to take in before a work meeting, like I just did (must dry these eyes), but I'm better because of it. The forgiveness and grace on display in the piece are next level.

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Naz

Wow, that floored me and made me tear up. The trauma he’s gone through. Oof.

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Karen A.

Amazing story. Thankful he’s in a better place now.

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Grant Hamilton

This was an incredible tear-jerker of a piece, which really hits home for me.

Two and a half years ago I was hit by a car while biking home, and although I was pretty badly injured (lost my pinky, among other things), I always have said that I wouldn’t trade places with the driver. He had a pretty bad Monday, too.

Where I live, privacy concerns prevented him from having any idea of my condition. He saw me lifted into the ambulance on a spinal board, leaving a pool of blood underneath where my head had been. For all he knew, I could be dead. I wasn’t at my best, but I did begin to recover quickly.

A few days later, I was doing a photo shoot with local media covering my injuries, and advocacy for safer streets, when he happened to go past again. I’m so glad he did. He stopped, we hugged, I could see the relief in his eyes that I was okay. I bear him no ill will.

I am so glad that the people in this piece seem to have found the same peace.

Caroline G.

I remember hearing an interview with a woman many years ago on NPR who started a support network for people who had accidentally killed or injured another person. Apparently it has grown and is now called the Hyacinth Fellowship. While I wish there was no need for such an organization, I am glad they exist.

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