What Did You Learn How To Do This Year?
Hey, real quick, what’s something you always wanted to do, but only just started to learn how to do in the last year? I always wanted to learn how to play guitar and last year my son and I started taking guitar lessons together and now I can sort of play guitar a little.
If you’re trying to convince yourself to learn something you should just do it because you might still be shitty at whatever you’re learning 6 months from now, but you’ll be much better than you’d be if you didn’t start until 6 months from now. I think I saw someone say this more eloquently (obviously), but when I tried to find it, all I could find was someone saying imagine if you started 6 months ago, which I think is a recipe for making yourself feel bad, and I bet you don’t need any help doing that, do you?
So, what’d you learn how to do this year or if you haven’t learned anything new yet, what are you going to start learning how to do this year?
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I've been learning metal machining after getting a small metal lathe last fall. I'd been shopping for one for a while because I kept doing projects where I needed to make or customize things more precisely than I could do with hand tools. It has been one of those skills where the onramp is not super steep (a plethora of YouTube videos helps) but there are endless details and efficiencies to learn that keep it really interesting.
Nice, keep it up!
I took apart an old truck and am very slowly putting it all back together. So far it mostly works better than it did before, which ill count as a win.
That's a win, Dalton!
I'm learning how not to kill houseplants. It's...a process. Each plant is like a puzzle. How much water? Light? One's starting turning yellow; what does that mean? But like another hobby I picked up later in life, photography, it's about slowing down, being present, and paying attention more than anything else.
Very good, Jay!
Photography-wise, film vs digital can take that even further (if you’re not already trying).
Couldn't agree more! Love my Nikon F2.
I've been working on my digital photo editing skills, and have finally gotten a handle on dodging & burning. It's amazing how much impact even small adjustments in light have on a photograph.
Yes, this is great!
Best thing is that before digital, dodging + burning was all done by hiding or showing light with your hands in the darkroom…
Learning Japanese. Yes, on the bird app. But I repeat what it tells me aloud, and am curious enough to look up and read about phonology/syntax on my own and even practice writing, so I find it’s a great ingredient in learning. I’ve learned both kana systems and probably know 200 words. Not great yet, but learning a ton.
200 words is more than I know and you're a lot better than you were 6 months ago!
I'm taking up woodworking. Okay, it's future tense as the lessons start next week, but I've already made the decision / paid for the course. I've always wanted to be able to make / fix furniture and things for my house, and I've got to start somewhere. My grandfather owned a wood flooring company and was a farmer who could build just about anything he needed around the farm. My great-grandfather and uncle were carpenters, too. I'd like to carry on my small part of the family tradition.
You're gonna fix such cool stuff!
This is fantastic - and what a wonderful rationale.
I learned the routine/protocol for visiting the public bath ~3 blocks away in the new neighborhood I moved into - they open at 3PM, it costs ¥550 (plus ¥150 for a coffee milk drink post-bathe), I can stick my shoes in the locker outside, valuables/coat in the locker inside, and winter clothing (to not take up space in the locker) in the wicker-ish baskets. Gotta bring my own towel/shampoo/body soap (they sell a variety of brands/kits too), the lined-up low showers have low pressure to match and there's no lukewarm/cold mizu-buro, it's just the 42ºC bath as the main event - toasty!
Wonderful!
Oh, I love Japanese baths! We had such a lovely time when we were there!
Trying to learn to play the harmonica. Found one in a box recently.
Hilariously my dog howls every time I practice!
Well now you're a duo!
I've been taking woodworking classes for the last few years. It's mostly been furniture-making classes, but I'm currently taking a marquetry class. Marquetry is when you take veneers (very thin sheets of wood) and cut them into shapes using a scroll saw to make a picture. It's a totally new thing for me and it's a challenge but I'm digging it!
I have never heard of this. Good job!
Oh, that's great!
I bought a spinning wheel three months ago, and I can finally spin a fairly fine-gauge yarn that is good enough to use in knitting a gift for someone, not just myself. It's easy to get in plenty of practice when the rhythmic treadling and gentle vibration of the machine are so soothing, and the hand motions require just the right level of attention where I can hold a conversation or listen to a show, or I can just get lost in the wool for an hour or two at a time.
It sounds like you're using a metric of you getting good enough at the spinning that now it's good enough for someone else and I get it because I'm the same way, but you deserve the good yarn, too!
I will certainly make more things for myself as I get better, but it felt like a landmark to feel like it was good enough give it away!
Absolutely!
I love this! That feeling of immersion/getting lost in something is so nice.
I love this. I only came here to say you're all an inspiration, and I'm absolutely loving the energy Aaron has brought this week. Thank you.
All these people learning new tricks is so great!
There are a lot of inspiring examples of cool things here and I’m almost embarrassed to list this alongside them. But I decided to learn the rules of a Star Trek Tabletop Roleplaying Game and run a game with my friends. The rules can be insanely complicated sometimes, and the first time we played was definitely a little rocky, but has been getting better since. It’s really satisfying learning new rules I kind of forgot or ignored earlier on that add depth to the game. And also just like coming with a cool idea for a TNG story and seeing my friends play through and discover the mystery as if they are in an episode.
One of my "when we move" goals is to find a group of friends to play tabletop roleplaying games with, so this is a big win in my book and gets me even more excited!
Similarly, I've learned several new 2-person standard-deck card games because sometimes my tween really doesn't want to talk but really wants (needs?) to hang out. We play a lot of Gin Rummy, Le Truc, and, when one of us is feeling punchy, Spite & Malice. I'd love to learn more games if anyone has suggestions! We also play a lot of "Speed Phase 10" with the standard deck — we have the phases saved on our phones, and our speed version allows you to tackle any phase you want in any order, keep your phase goals secret, and the play continues without reshuffling cards until your draw pile has run out. It's winner-takes-all— whoever completes all 10 phases first gets the glory.
@Tom, you shouldn't be embarrassed, the whole thing about learning something new is knowing you have the ability to learn something else new and now you've got that.
@Isah, this is very nice and I don't know how to play any of those games.
Oh lord, if you are looking for suggestions for card games to play with a tween/teen, boy do I have you covered.
Phase 10 was a big hit with my daughter last summer. We almost wore through the cards.
Sushi Go and Taco Cat are also fun and quick card games (probably better with 3-4 people).
And while not a card game, Catan Dice Game was another fun quick one that was a big hit. It’s like a mix between Catan and Yahtzee!
Catan Dice Game?! Sounds like the perfect dose of fun when we need a dopamine-connection fix. And perhaps wonderfully portable? We have a few fun "you need these specific cards to play this game" games but made it our joint New Years' intention to learn more games we can play with a standard deck so I could make sure that was always in my bag for dogwalking-coffee shop mornings.
Also, Tom, we 100% have played through 2 decks of Phase 10. That necessitated our move to a standard deck version. We've been playing Phase 10 for.... 6 years of my 12-year-old's life? It's amazing that it has grown in complexity with her, both because she just understands & enjoys strategy more, plus we come up with new twists for it to make it harder.
Learning how to bring more bursts of joy into my life is 100% top of my to-do list and I'm grateful for you framing it in the context of learning!
Thanks, Tom! We've got Sushi Go and Taco Cat. Gonna look up Phase 10.
Weaving. What a rabbit hole.
Bet you're gonna weave something nice.
Ooooh, weaving is something I've always wanted to get into. I've coveted self-built looms of various types, but just don't have the space or the time anymore. (Maybe once I'm out of the kid stage...)
I've started playing Magic: the Gathering at a game store near me. I've been going on Fridays pretty consistently for the past 6 months. The same people tend to show up every Friday so I've made some new grown-up friends, which I've needed. I was building decks like "this one is all hobbits" or "this one is all spiders" and getting stomped pretty consistently but my new friends make good suggestions and the internet is full of good deckbuilding advice. I have some decks now that perform pretty well. It's been nice to get out of the house.
Excellent! Last year our house was all about Pokemon cards, but that cooled a little, and there is a burbling Magic interest.
I taught myself how to crochet using YouTube videos. Mostly I tear out rows of work but I did manage to make a scarf for next winter.
Good job, Laurie!
My favorite quote on this topic is from Jason Segel (the actor) about playing the piano. He says, "I'm willing to be bad for as long as it takes, until I'm good... I don't have a sense of shame. I just don't. ...I don't really have a the thing of, "Oh, I've embarrassed myself." I just don't understand why I would stop trying to play piano even though I'm not good at it. I want to be good at it. So why wouldn't I keep playing?"
I think most people have that shame, but we probably shouldn't!
Love this quote! I took up Capoeira when I was close to fifty. It brought me joy, and a community of friends. If I allowed myself to feel embarrassed, I never would have gotten past the first lesson.
That's awesome, James!
I've been knitting for years, but in the last year I finally learned to make my nemesis: a sweater.
Hell yeah, now you need a new nemesis.
I started taking piano lessons right after the new year and I couldn't have predicted how fulfilling and fun it is.
That's great! My MIL is a piano teacher so we are both proud of you!
Laura, I took up piano right after my fortieth birthday some seven years ago. Stick with it-it gets better and better!!!
I love this question because, well, I try to learn something new each year and that outlook is something I don't see that much in my physical community. This year, I learned how to eat right. I have been a healthy eater for many years. following the 7 word rule, I thought most of the time. One year ago this week I realized I really needed to stop telling myself I was doing well and stop listening to others who said I was doing everything right and just go back to the fundamentals. The changes were not complicated, in fact, far less so than any other strategy I tried to employ in the last 30 years to improve my health. I feel better than I can ever remember, weigh 40lbs less, have less stress and have significantly improved my stamina.
Wow, Kelly, good job!
I've gotten considerably better at Inkscape ( a graphic design tool) and have started learning some 3D modeling in TinkerCAD. I designed and 3D printed some lens holders for a solar viewer I am making for the upcoming eclipse on April 8th.
Local public library has a fantastic makerspace for projects like this.
As someone who had to teach myself rudimentary graphic design to make labels for my store on Gimp, I applaud this!
I have finally started learning Scottish Country Dancing. It has been a long wait of around 14 years (because of fear of failure!), but I signed up for a class in November and have not looked back since. It has turned out to be even more enjoyable and sociable than I had hoped for. The community is incredibly welcoming, and the dances are challenging, but a lot of fun. I get to dance with partners of all ages, from 8-year-olds to 91-year-olds, which is a delight. I am thoroughly enjoying every moment of it so far!
Wow, we are all learning life lessons in this thread. I wrote in my journal, "I want to be a good enough dancer that I become willing to be spontaneous and public with it." That was 4 years ago... I haven't danced anywhere but my kitchen since. I want some of that "delight"! Time to google community dance classes!
Kirstin not sure where you're based but a bunch of years ago I got invited by friends to attend the Scottish Ball in NYC, and it was a blast! Everyone knew how to dance much better than I did, and I think they even offered practice sessions prior but my last-minute invite meant that wasn't feasible. But everyone was welcoming and they explained the steps before each dance. And there was live music, and people dressed in all kinds of tartans, and we had haggis and drams of whiskey. Highly recommend, and I suspect there are other balls elsewhere?!
Yes, @Isah! There are so many styles of dance. I tried a few before I found the one that has brought me so much joy I'm sure you will too!
@Meg, I love that you went to a ball last minute! I went to a (Robert) Burns Ball and Supper in January, and like your experience, it was just a blast! The Royal Scottish Country Dance branches host dances and balls worldwide. I'm pretty excited to add find a class/dance to my "things to do when traveling" list.
Good job all y'all dancers!
I remember Tony Danza (!) in an interview talking about learning to play an instrument (piano, maybe?) and how even though he started so far into adulthood, in 10-15 years, he'd be able to say he'd been playing for… 10-15 years! I think of that every time I'm nervous to start something. (I guess he is the boss! [I'm so sorry.])
Yes! Gotta start today!
I agree with you Aaron and Kelly above that it's good to be learning something new every year, or any time really! There's a joy to being bad at something because you've never done it before, and then the subsequent improvements as you get further into it. I've been learning how to be on time by being early, which actually translates to sometimes I am perfectly on time and sometimes I am early and when I'm early I'm working on being chill in that space of waiting.
This is a good thing I still need to learn!
Being overly self-conscious about being "bad" can cause you to miss so many wonderful experiences. Cheers to you for finding the joy in it!
I’m in England, and have been watching cricket for years, but it’s a complex game and I’ve never really taken on all the rules (known as the ‘laws of cricket’), so this year I have bought myself a membership at the local cricket ground (I’m fortunate enough to live very close to a really special one: Trent Bridge). I’m buying the official book of the rules/laws, and I’m going to try to learn more of them. I won’t manage to understand them all this year, but I hope to learn a lot more about the game, which I think will in turn make it even more interesting to watch.
Wow, cool!!
I developed a problem with my foot/ankle that means I need to limit my steps (after a lifetime of maximizing them, I can't describe to you what a big change that is) so I'm learning how to use a rowing machine. There's a whole world of rowers out there I knew nothing about. It's very technical but also really challenging and somehow rewarding. Who knew?
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